Frequently Asked Question: Who Influenced You?

Hi, everyone. Today’s question is from the Insecure Writers Support Group.

Is there someone who supported or influenced you that perhaps isn’t around anymore? Anyone you miss?

I had a hard time answering this specifically about writing. I never felt like I had much support for it when growing up; in fact, a whole notebook full of stories and poems was thrown away when my mom decided “it was just a bunch of junk” when she decided to “ding out” my room when I was at a high school speech tournament. It took me a long time to get past that, to be honest. My mom reads my books now, and that early work was probably awful — but it still hurt a lot.

I think the one person who I felt was consistently in my corner was my maternal grandmother. She passed away in 1996. She always made me feel heard and appreciated. I’ve often regretted that the only book of mine she ever saw published was Born of War … Dedicated to Peace. That’s not to say that I’m anything less than proud of that work, but she never saw any of my novels.

Blast from the Past: Loma Prieta Earthquake

born of warThirty-two years ago today, while I was on my way home from work on the Presidio of San Francisco, my carpool driver pulled over. The car had pulled sharply to the right, and he thought a u-joint had broken. He inspected the car, and it was fine. We got on the Golden Gate Bridge (we were at the viewpoint) and went home to Marin County. It was not until we were all home that we learned that what later became known as the Loma Prieta earthquake had just happened. Marin was almost entirely unaffected, while the rest of the Bay Area had huge amounts of damage. A couple of days later, I was putting in 12+ hour shifts in the Emergency Operations Center as part of the group controlling the military’s disaster response and relief efforts.

All we had to monitor the media was the radio from my desk (one of the guys had gone upstairs to get it … the only place on base that had electricity was the EOC). We had been begging for media monitoring equipment and been denied under the budget. Needless to say, we got it after that.

Just a couple of months prior, I had been to a disaster relief field training exercise that prepared us greatly (little did we know …) for managing in the wake of Loma Prieta, because we learned where the problems were and could plan for them.

It was a difficult time in San Francisco Bay Area history, but one that showed the mettle of our Public Affairs Office team in a way that nothing else could have done.
Born of War … Dedicated to Peace was my first book, written in 1995 as a souvenir for the decommissioning of Sixth U.S. Army. You can read it for free on Scribd.

Treasure Trove!


We’ve been doing a lot of tidying up and clearing out at our place during the shelter-in-place. That means going through lots of boxes that have piled up in the garage and elsewhere.

Buried deep in one of those boxes was my sole remaining copy of the first book I wrote. It was published in 1995, when I still worked for the Dept. of Defense. I remain very proud of this publication.

Author’s Inspiration: “Born of War … Dedicated to Peace”

born of warHi, everyone. Today, I’m going to talk about how I came to write my very first book, Born of War … Dedicated to Peace, back in 1995. (This link will take you to a free download of the book.)

I was still working for the Department of Defense, on the Presidio of San Francisco. The garrison had been decommissioned under the Base Realignment and Closure Act‘s 1988 directive, despite numerous efforts to prevent that happening. I worked for Sixth U.S. Army, as the Command Information Officer. All of us at Sixth Army were assured our jobs were solid for another five years at least, as we would be tenants of the National Park Service.

Six months later, we all had reduction-in-force (RIF) notices, stating that our jobs were going away and Sixth Army was to be decommissioned.

As we planned the draw-down, it became apparent that we needed a very special souvenir indeed to give to people who came to the closure ceremony. Because my job was to write about the command, I was given the task of researching and writing the copy. I wasn’t alone in the process: colleagues Michael Murphy (design/layout) and Sgt. Maj. Pat Maddox (photographic researched) were huge helps. I was also blessed to be friends with Lt. Col. (Ret.) Edward J. Erickson, PhD, who was on active duty at the time. The now-renowned historian helped me with a portion of the text where I was struggling and he was a subject matter expert.

Despite having been a writer since I was a kid, I never really imagined that I’d write a book … let alone that it would be a military history. And yet, there I was. The day I held it in my hands was one of the proudest of my life.

Born of War was a work-for-hire; I was paid to write it as part of my day job. The research proved to be more interesting than I anticipated, and I truly enjoyed working on the project.

Frequently Asked Question: What are five objects we’d find in your writing space?

insecure2bwriters2bsupport2bgroup2bbadgeThis question comes from the Insecure Writer’s Support Group, and will be the last one for 2018.

1. One of the cats. Seriously, they like to “help.” At the moment, it’s Gracey; she’s a lavender point snowshoe Siamese, and is the most mischievous of our feline family members.

2. My bulletin board. It’s always covered in reference ephemera from my most recent research trip, so I can grab what I need if I want to double-check something.

3. Model horses. I have a huge collection, and most of the display shelves are in my office.

4. A soda. I don’t drink coffee (I know, it’s a shocking thing to confess). My favorite sodas are regular Coke, Vanilla Coke, and Dr. Pepper.

born of war5. My diploma from the Defense Information School. I graduated from Public Affairs Officer Course 4-90, with honors. The first 16 years of my “day job” career were with the Dept. of the Army as a civilian, and it was during that time that I wrote my first book. Born of War … Dedicated to Peace is available via Scribd.